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HOW I GATHERED THE FIRST 100 PEOPLE
TO MY CHURCH
The success of a church really can't be determined by only measuring attendance. But getting the first 100 people to come to our worship service was very critical to the future "success" of our church. At Living Faith Community Church, (LFCC), we started out with around 40 attendees at our first service, and it took a couple of years for us to reach the "100-person" mark. When that happened, I really started to sense our function as a community - that we could grow both individually and corporately toward our goals. I concentrated on the following tasks in the first year or two to build the foundation for our ministry: Get a worship space, build a Gospel-driven service for the performance-driven, develop community fast, know your people, and stick to your core values. Getting a Worship Space So we approached a high school in Flushing. Schools in this area are not very gracious about renting to churches, but we were able to meet there for our first year. After 9/11, the school needed to increase security, and we could no longer afford the extra cost. So we moved to a synagogue in Queens where we are currently worshipping. It's not the most ideal situation - we have to meet at 2 PM on Sunday afternoons. Once again, we are talking to other churches and synagogues, and praying that another option will open up. Build a Worship Service for
the Performance-Driven Our community in Flushing is about 80% Asian American - mostly a mix of Chinese and Korean people. Many are unchurched and some have Buddhist backgrounds. These are cultures that are very performance driven. Some mistake Christianity for yet another invitation to more "religion" or good works. Our response was to emphasize the work of Christ throughout the service. This message of grace through Christ's work seemed to really speak to them and sparked faith in our early people. It was a great reminder of the gospel for believers and an important introduction for non-believers. So, I strove to make my sermons and the order-of-service gospel-driven, grace-oriented and Christ-centered in order to help people to experience God in worship. We wanted to make sure that attending church was enjoyable, not laborious or done out of legalistic requirements. We also wanted an appropriate setting that allowed for freer worship. To these goals, we made sure that a friendly, welcoming team greeted members of the body. We also encouraged eager new members to join the team of greeters. This was a great place to serve - who better to welcome visitors than those who were recently made members? They were already sensitive to the needs of newcomers. This Welcoming Ministry encouraged the guests to sign the guests form and we made follow up contacts with them. I sent an email or post card, and one of the members of the Welcoming Ministry sent a follow up email thanking them for their visit. Worship music was very important. Our worship leader is also our seminary intern, so we receive the competence of not only a trained musician, but a seminary graduate. We use contemporary praise songs, many from Sovereign Grace Ministries, and the leader facilitated not only the praise music but the corporate prayer time as well. Our congregation loves to sing! So, music was very important in drawing the first 100 people into the service and bringing them back multiple times. Develop Community Fast
Community groups also gave the believers a place to discover and exercise their spiritual gifts. I focused on discipleship and training to help members reach spiritual goals. With this growth, lay members used their gifts to collectively worked toward the established vision and goals. They became outward focused and in turn, helped others to understand the gospel. Gift-use of lay people is vital to keeping people at a small church. Know Your People The Puritan pastor, Richard Baxter made it his habit to catechize his church members and to make regular visitations. Following this example, I also made pastoral visitations once a year to connect with the members and regular attendees. Everyone wants to be loved, cared for, and needed. We cannot operate the church through programs but rather through relationships. This was especially true in a church like ours where 80% or more were young Asian Americans, a culture where approval and acceptance is based on success. Therefore, a meaningful relationship between the leaders and the members was critical in a small church. Sticking to the Core Values
Many visitors stayed at our church because they like our vision and core values. For example, we got to know a Korean lady who came because of the Gospel-driven focus of our church. She grew up in a Buddhist home where she was constantly reminded of the works she had to perform. Later, even attending a Catholic church and a Korean church, she was still focused on a works-driven life. At LFCC, she finally heard about what Christ did for her. Now her works are coming from a place of grace, and her faith has really grown. Other members have told me that they were drawn to LFCC because of our focus on church-planting. In their experience, churches were often very insular within the existing community. They wanted a church that was intentional about prayer and financial support for church-planting, and was committed to expanding the kingdom outside of LFCC. One Last Note But if I had to do it over again, I would have definitely prayed more with the core group. Also, I would have shared the missional aspect of the vision much more. It should have been part of the DNA of the church from the get-go. But when we first started, we were so concerned about making sure our church was very neat and organized, We made it a priority to develop the right activities, programs and administrative functions before focusing our efforts to bring in the unchurched and meeting their needs. We were afraid of the "messiness" of it all. We were too concerned about making ourselves look like a church instead of being a church. So, we didn't start out with all of our core values. They developed after we started as I received more training and input. We made many mistakes, but we have learned so much in the process. And we are still learning!
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